Showing posts with label Girls. Show all posts
Showing posts with label Girls. Show all posts

Friday, July 9, 2010

Some Love Suggestions That I have Got Today

You know, I am now in a hesitation of making a correct decision on the newly created love problem that i have mentioned in the previous post. In order to get a better decision of should I love one girl or not, I already gone to all of the possible doors and got some suggestions.

Aslam a boy who is undoubtedly my best friend, said me a lot of things. It’s not possible to write all of these but some fascinating portions will be noted here.

Aslam said “You have to consider a lot of things before fall in love. You gave me a lot of suggestions while I was having problem. And the suggestions you gave me I would like to repeat these on you too. Ask yourself, will my parents accept her or not? How she looks? Do you really like her?”

He also said “Don’t be enticed by so called crying. You shouldn’t make any crucial decision being emotional by the crying of a Girl. You are matured enough.”

He added more like “What class is she in? What the subject she is reading? What their family status?”

I replied everything and eventually he suggest me “If you really love her you can love. But your parents are first. Be sure that, your chosen girl will be accepted by your parents”.

Ok Aslam. Thank You for giving me some valuable suggestions.  You don’t know, I love you so much.

Now I will tell here about a smart boy named Azad. He is also my bosom friend. He loves a girl and their relationship is continuing along four years and already gained lots of experience. I told him about my problem that “One of my friend’s younger sister proposed me…..should I accept her or not as there is a risk of breaching the friendship?”

Azad replied “I don’t want to mess the Love relationship with the Islam. But I wanna to say you one thing that, everyone should make the love relationship. You shouldn’t see the outer beauty of girl you are going to love; rather, you should love the girl who really loves you.”

He added “It’s a great feeling when a lover touches another one’s hand. And loving memories, sharing, caring is really needed for a boy or girl who is in this stage. Life feels pain and spice-less if you don’t have a girl friend in this young stage.”

An exceptional thing Azad added “Make love but don’t confine yourself on any promise like “Must Have to Get Marry”. Because if you be bound on that, you will be on pressure and life will be hell.”

Eventually he said “Love is a rhythm divine, just explore it. If the girl loves you you can love her.”

Everything I have analyzed and understood too. A preliminary decision also has been taken.

So, what the decision?

Interested? Don’t worry. I will tell you that, after the incident being happened. It may be tomorrow or day after tomorrow.

Wednesday, June 2, 2010

যে ৫ জিনিষ আপনার Girlfriend এর সঙ্গে কখনো করবেন না।

বর্তমানে Girlfriend জিনিসটা নিয়ে অনেককেই খাবি খেতে হয়। চিন্তা-ভাবনার বেশ বড় অংশই থাকে Girlfriend রিলেটেড। মন খারাপ হয় Girlfriend এর কারনে। মেজাজ খারাপ হয় GirlFriend এর কারনে। আসলে এর পিছনে কি কারনগুলা থাকে কখনো কি ভেবে দেখেছেন?

নিচে কতগুলা পরামর্শ দেয়া আছে যেগুলা আপনার জীবনে Girlfriend Related বেশ কতগুলা সমস্যার সমাধান দেবে। 
ভালোবাসা মানুষ



।    আপনি প্রশংসা করেন কম : এটা সত্যিই খুব খারাপ লক্ষন যদি আপনি আপনার সম্পর্কটা everlasting তৈরি করতে চান তাহলে সরাসরিভাবে তার প্রশংসা করুন। শুনেন, প্রতিটি মেয়ে তার বয়ফ্রেন্ডের কাছ থেকে প্রশংসা পেতে চায়তার রুপের প্রশংসা করুন, কোন সুন্দর Dress পড়লে প্রশংসা করুন। কথার প্রশংসা করুন। মনে রাখবেন, প্রশংসা করলে আপনার কিচ্ছু ক্ষতি হবে না। পকেট থেকে একটা টাকাও যাবে না। বরং লাভই হবে।

আপনি আপনার Girl Friend কে গুরুত্বই দেন না: এইটি কখনও করবেন নাতাকে গুরুত্ব দিন সব কিছুতে যদি সে যোগ্য হয়যদি সে কোন ভুল করে তবে তাকে বকাঝকা করবেন না।  তাকে জানান যে কি ভুল সে করেছে এবং কিভাবে সে উন্নতি করতে পারেশুনন, মেয়েরা কখনোই boyfriend এর কাছ  থেকে উল্টাপাল্টা কিছু  শুনতে চায় না বরং, তারা সবসময় চায় যে কোন কিছুতেই তার প্রেমিক তার সাথে থাকুক।  


।    আপনি জন্ম দিন, Appointment তারিখ, Anniversary তারিখ ইত্যাদি ভুলে যান:  It’s সত্যি terrific এইটি কখনও করবেন নাদরকার হলে কম্পিউটারে বা মোবাইলে নোট করে রাখুন। মেয়েদের কাছে এই তারিখ সম্পর্কিত ব্যাপারগুলা খুব স্পর্শকাতরযদি আপনি এইটি কোনও ভাবে কোন তারিখ ভুলে যান, উপযুক্ত কারন দেখিয়ে স্যরি বলুন।

আপনি যোগাযোগ রাখেন কম :  Out of Sight, Out of Mind এটা  নিশ্চি জানেননিয়মিত ফোন করুন, SMS পাঠান, মেসেন্জারেও কথা বলুন। মোট কথা, কাছে রাখুন সবসময়, যে কোন ভাবেই হোক।  

।    আপনি রোমান্টিক নন: এটা সত্যিই খারাপরোমান্টিক হতে চেষ্টা করুন আপনাকে রোমান্টিক হতে একজন কবি হওয়ার দরকার নেই আপনি যা অনুভব করেন Simply এটা প্রকাশ করুন। কি কি ভালো লাগে সব বলুন। দেখবেন সে খুশি হবে।

আশা করি পরামর্শগুলা আপনাদের ভালো লাগবে।

ধন্যবাদ।

পোস্টের সূত্র: Love & Dating Tips

Saturday, May 8, 2010

Having Problem With A Girl | What To Do Now???


It’s me a boy who is affable but conservative on the view of Love. I have already passed more than 22 springs from my life but haven’t yet fallen in love.

Strange! Yeah! I had no wish to make the so called love relationship where peoples do loves in order to pass the leisure time. I had no wish to make love with the girl who loves me just for taking Fast Food rather than making any loving sense.Love Decision Problem

I always been searching a love which will be true and no fake will be exist on it. She may not be so much beautiful or stunningly smart but I need an inner beauty that the exact things I am looking for. I had the dreams but not the dreams which full of fairy tales. I dreamt a girl who will be simple; I dreamt a love which will be delightful, less-pained, and full of romance and aroma.

I have always been waiting the “DAY” I will fall in love. But today, oh! Sorry, last night I found something exceptional than my usual life. Someone proposed me and I am just blowing on it now.

Got it baby? Wait…..i will not conceal any bit of it.

Have a flashback and go before 2 years ago……….some days with little memories for me but some great memorable memories for someone that was unknown to me till last night.

Someone named umm….. um… (Sorry) one of my friends and me were live at a mess in Mohakhali. We were so much friendly and shared a lot of things and the days were really funny. Personally he knows me a “GOOD” type boy. Ok... Let the incident begins….

His home-district was in Tangail. One day, he went to his village and by the way, during making conversations with his family members about his mess life, he revealed something of me there. On there, someone, my friend’s younger sister, somehow, were impressed to hear something about me. I don’t know what the exact things were told. Ok…let the event be screwed…lol.

Anyway, the girl were stolen my numbers from his brother’s mobile. That was the inception. ……she often called me by using various numbers.

Firstly I couldn’t recognize herself but rather whenever I put pressure on her she was compelled to reveal the truth that who is she. Then I though I would be better to let the things be concealed because the thing I hear was horrific. I didn’t prepare to get a call from one of friend’s sister as I usually dislike it and friendship is a big matter to me.

I knew that if my friend knows it somehow, our friendship will be breached and I have to suffer a lot.

BTW, I didn’t tell it to anyone, even my friend too. But gradually the total matter is being complex day by day.

The complexity has shown the ultimate result last night that’s why I am blabbing here.  “She proposed me”.

She did it before 4 months ago but I refused by thinking it is not possible as another friendship between her elder brother and me is involved here.

But yesterday? I refused her again but something is stuck still too. She is too much desperate now and already left taking rice and go bed at late night.

She is too much importunate now and is not letting me leave. She is crying and saying by phone “I have been loving you since 2 years but when I proposed you; you refuse. Shouldn’t I deserve your love?”

She says again “You people are avoiding me by saying the Distance, Family Matters, Friendship, but I am up all of your reasons. I love you….that is not a huge logic than your so called reasons?”

I replied “Ok let me be your best friend. I could be your best friend ever that you can’t imagine.”

She says “Oh! No! I don’t need any friend…..I need love. One thing, just one thing I want from you …Pls love me.”

I replied “Please stop your crying. I don’t put up with this…..if you act so…I will never talk with you. Umm………ok we better make a “Negotiations” on day after tomorrow by confronting and I think we will get a solution.”

She says “No…..no need to have it. I already thought a lot and nothing found but loving you. I love you. Just ….ok we can meet on the day but be sure If you don’t accept me…..i will leave this world forever. Even, I won’t take rice until you love me.”

I replied “Ok let the time to fix it. See you day after tomorrow”.

I cut the phone.

It’s my turn. I am so confused now. What should I do? Should I refuse her? I have published a post on www.somewhereinblog.net asking people to help me about this. But nothing worthy I have found.

Thursday, October 8, 2009

What, if you feel that your lover or girlfriend is fake?

Fake
One of my friends named Selim is continuing a relationship with a girl by mobile. Their relationship is very close and deep. They can’t think a day without any conversation over mobile. While they are in very deep, the boy wants to meet with the girl. Eventually agreed with him and fixed a date to meet up. But when the time is near the girl changes her desires to meet up. Surprisingly enough, it is not happening just for one day. I know, the girl fixed the meeting up date at least 3 days. She shows some tiny, fake pretends that’s easy to avoidable or manage. I don’t know the reason, for what she is pretending so? Today is another date. Lol……..last night I got a phone call from her and notified that she is not coming even tomorrow to meet with the Selim due to her aunt. Her aunt will come tomorrow to their house. There is no possibility to going out. Huh!! Now one question is raised, what type of girl she is? Are all of the girls like her? Fortunately I haven’t yet made any relationship with any girl. I don’t have any tension to meet with anybody. I don’t have any fear to lose somebody and so I am leading free life like a bird. It’s true that, I will not be able to tolerate this matter; where the girl avoids a boy and makes the boy a Hippocrates.